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Dangerous, negative, evil, wicked thoughts
Jimil asks…
“My brother is suffering from v v dangerous, negative, evil, wicked thoughts which come in thousands in one second. Please tell me what would be the solution for it — even doctors remedies like psychiatrist haven’t helped and neurologist as well, please do reply.”
The FASTEST way for your brother to be well again is to read and do Habit Guide. Both of you read it and then you can help him, and you can talk about plans etc together — how to set the goal and step towards it.
The truth is that there are MULTIPLE causes for your brother’s condition, and so the solution is to address all these causes. Here’s some articles that explain what I mean… Read more
I’m scared of zombies and I can’t sleep
Katherine asks…
“It’s almost 12:30am and I can’t fall asleep. It’s a school night and I usually can’t sleep on school night for some reason, and on weekends I can fall asleep. I’ve tried your advice, many other different websites on how to get rid of scary thoughts and how to fall asleep fast. None have really worked. I am scared of zombies, etc. and I know they are not real, but they still freak me out a lot. I usually just close my eyes at night hoping to fall asleep, but I keep thinking there is some kind of demon looking at me. Please help! I’ve slept in my parents bed, but it’s even harder to sleep in there (and they don’t want me to sleep in there, they think I’m annoying lol). HELP!”
No such thing as zombies
You have to know with absolute clarity that you’re in no danger. When you think about zombies and get scared, then you are really seeing them as a threat to you and you will go in a “fight or flight” state, which is to save your life when there’s real danger. You MUST see these thoughts as silly/funny and that will help a lot in getting rid of them.
Click here to read more about seeing your fear in a different light
Exercise if scared
Once you’re in a state of fear, in that fight or flight state, your body is making adrenaline so that you can literally fight or run away. This makes you hyper-alert and makes your thinking illogical and reactive. So if you’re very scared and in a state like this, exercise is the best way to calm down, it’s the natural way to calm down, it’s what your body expects to happen… Read more
Fear of the dark
Aaron asks…
“Now I don’t know what happened, but my sister seems to have developed a fear of the dark. She admits it, but says that she still loves the dark. Says it’s exciting.”
Use reason to begin to overcome dysfunctional fear:
Fear of the dark is natural because where we evolved, in nature, dark=dangerous… Read more
Natural cure for MS
I’ve very excited about this… we all love a good story.
And this story is mega powerful, to show you the power of nutrition, just what it’s capable of, just how important it is… Read more
Someone is driving me crazy
Mimi asks…
“I have lived with a in-law family member for 5 years now and my thoughts of this person are driving me insane. I try extremely hard to keep my peace, not saying anything, and trying to make my thoughts leave so I dont say anything horrible and it is eating me alive. What do you suggest I do when those thoughts hound me? If your answer is meditation, what do I try to focus on?”
I suggest you don’t empower them with more attention. Simply observe what’s happening and be curious about it. This will instantly separate “you” from the thoughts and emotions and help you to let them go.
It’s tough, and there’s no easy solution, but there is a simple solution and that is meditation. The ONLY solution to any ego related problem is to go higher — become more conscious.
A very valuable thing to do in these kinds of situations is to spend some time thinking compassionate thoughts about the person who you perceive to be hurting you… Read more
